{"id":667,"date":"2009-06-09T09:30:45","date_gmt":"2009-06-09T15:30:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/?p=667"},"modified":"2023-01-30T14:33:18","modified_gmt":"2023-01-30T20:33:18","slug":"i-vs-me-review","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/pronouns\/i-vs-me-review\/","title":{"rendered":"<em>I<\/em> vs. <em>Me<\/em> (Review)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We get more questions about pronoun usage, particularly <em>I <\/em>vs. <em>me<\/em>, than any other topic. So, here is a review that should help you feel more secure about your choices. For more on the topic, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/grammar\/pronoun.asp\">click here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Should we say, &#8220;She and I went to the store&#8221;? Or is it correct to say, &#8220;She and me went to the store&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p>Is it, &#8220;He put suntan lotion on he\u00a0and I&#8221;? Or would you say, &#8220;He put suntan lotion on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/pronouns\/reflexive-pronouns\/\">himself<\/a> and me&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p>Many of us were taught to be suspicious of <em>and <\/em><em>me<\/em>, with the idea that its use would make us sound uneducated. But the question of whether to use <em>I <\/em>or <em>me <\/em>comes down to whether you are using the word as a subject or as an object in the sentence. Both words are pronouns, but <em>I<\/em> is a subject pronoun while <em>me<\/em> is an object pronoun.<\/p>\n<p>So, in the sentence, &#8220;She and I went to the store,&#8221; the correct word to use would be <em>I<\/em> rather than <em>me<\/em>. Why? Because <em>I<\/em> is the subject of the sentence. (Who is going to the store? <em>She <\/em>and <em>I<\/em> are going to the store.)<\/p>\n<p>One good way to test this rule is to see how it sounds when you use each pronoun individually: It sounds right to say, &#8220;She went to the store.&#8221; You would also say, &#8220;I went to the store.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He put suntan lotion on himself and me&#8221; would be correct because <em>himself <\/em>and <em>me <\/em>are objects. Specifically, they are objects of the preposition <em>on<\/em>. &#8220;He put suntan lotion on himself&#8221; is obviously correct as opposed to &#8220;on he.&#8221; You would also say, &#8220;He put suntan lotion on me,&#8221; not &#8220;on I.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pop Quiz<\/strong><br \/>\nSelect the correct sentence.<\/p>\n<p>1A. Arlene asked he and I to complete the job.<br \/>\n1B. Arlene asked him and me to complete the job.<\/p>\n<p>2A. He and I completed the job for Arlene.<br \/>\n2B. Him and me completed the job for Arlene.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Answers to Pop Quiz<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1B. Arlene asked him and me to complete the job.<br \/>\n2A. He and I completed the job for Arlene.<\/p>\n<div class=\"_textcenter\">\n<h6 class=\"content_footer_title title -sub\">Are you ready for the quiz?<\/h6>\n<p><a class=\"content_post_footer_button button -alt\" title=\"I vs. Me Quiz\" href=\"\/grammar_quiz\/i_vs_me.asp\">I vs Me Quiz<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We get more questions about pronoun usage, particularly I vs. me, than any other topic. So, here is a review that should help you feel more secure about your choices. For more on the topic, click here. Should we say, &#8220;She and I went to the store&#8221;? Or is it correct to say, &#8220;She and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-667","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-definitions","category-pronouns"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/667"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=667"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/667\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6403,"href":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/667\/revisions\/6403"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=667"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=667"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grammarbook.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=667"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}